(4) At church he’s Mr. Good, but at home Mr. Grouch (5) At church she’s an example, but at home exasperating 5. The infant is a receiver … not a giver a. The spiritual infant examines everything as a receiver b. Fussing over rights B. The Spiritual Infant is Concerned with Argument Rather than Action 1. Envying, strife, divisions are his occupation 2. Perhaps the most underestimated sin in our lives is strife a. Galatians 5:19–21; Philippians 1:27; 2:1–4 b. Colossians 3:8–13; 1 Thessalonians 3:12;